Transgender: Resources Page
This page is a collection of information and resources about the transgender community from the archives of Beth Chayim Chadashim and the Jewish community in Los Angeles.
“The Transgender Day of Remembrance seeks to highlight the losses we face due to anti-transgender bigotry and violence,” said transgender Jewish educator Yiscah Smith. “I am no stranger to the need to fight for our rights, and the right to simply exist is first and foremost. With so many seeking to erase transgender people — sometimes in the most brutal ways possible — it is vitally important that those we lose are remembered, and that we continue to fight for justice.”
November 20, 2019
On Wednesday, November 20, 2019, from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m., the City of West Hollywood and its Transgender Advisory Board will host a Transgender Day of Remembrance Ceremony.
The event will take place at the Center for Early Education, located at 563 N. Alfred Street, and will include a march, speakers, and a reading of names to memorialize those who have been killed as a result of transphobia. Attendance is free and open to the public. Limited parking will be available on-site at the Center for Early Education; validated overflow parking will be available at the West Hollywood Park five-story public parking structure, located at 625 N. San Vicente Boulevard.
On Transgender Day of Remembrance, the flags at West Hollywood City Hall will be flown at half-staff.
November 22, 2019
Transgender Day of Remembrance Shabbat Services and Movie Screening
November 22nd, 6 to 10 pm
Join Bobbi Meilen and BCC’s Na’avor “Let Us Cross Over” Havurah for Shabbat on November 22 in honor of Transgender Remembrance Day. During the service, led by Rabbi Alyson Solomon and Davi Cheng, Bobbi and others from our Na’avor Havurah will share words of Torah from their experience. To honor our trans siblings who have passed
- We will mark off chairs in front of the sanctuary
- Stones will be available for people who would like to place a stone on our Bima in remembrance of someone who has passed, similar to our Yom Kippur ritual of remembrance
- You are also invited to bring or send in photos and bios to honor those who have passed prior to the service.
At 6pm, there will be a screening of The Death and Life of Marsha P Johnson in the library. Arrive any time prior to our 8pm service for the opportunity to view the movie, create a photos display of remembrance and be together in community.
November 23, 2019
Trans/Non-Binary BCC Members and Friends: Connect with BCC’s trans community!
Join Members of Na’avor, BCC’s Transgender Havurah, for coffee and tea at Cutie’s Coffee in East Hollywood on Saturday, November 23rd. We’ll have a table out front from Noon until 2 pm. Feel free to drop in and say hi! Contact our Na’avor Rosh, Bobbi Meilen with questions email@example.com.
Transgender Resources from BCC
Kadin Henningsen: “While lay leadership has been a long-standing tradition at BCC, Rabbi Lisa Edwards and Cantor Juval Porat have really helped empower transgender members of the community to be actively involved in creating and leading the TDOR Shabbat service,” Kadin told the Jewish Journal. Read here
Josh Gershick: “When religionists cut off women’s access to reproductive healthcare – in so-called Red states or Blue – do we fight for a woman’s right to control her body and her life? When Trans people – who merely wish to pee safely in the bathroom consistent with their gender identity – are characterized as sexual predators, will we stand united as an LGBTQ community?” – drash by Elissa Barrett & Josh Gershick. Read here
“As a 33 year old, I had a vivid dream in which my consciousness was in a man’s body. A woman stood beside me, embracing me, and a tall Being stood beside us. On a table nearby was a lifeless ‘Zsa Zsa,’ my female form. (In a smart linen skirt and matching jacket: Always look your best.)” read Josh Irving Gershick’s coming out drash
Jess Reynolds: “As a queer and trans person, I wasted a lot of years pretending to be someone or something I wasn’t in order to make others happy.” Reynolds’ sermon on Parashat Vayeitzei is available online. read here
From the BCC Archives
Rabbi Lisa Edwards quoted a scene from the hit new television show Transparent, in her beautiful sermon Lech Lecha: “In the scene, the 70 year old main character, Maura, comes out as trans to her shocked adult daughter, Sarah, who, seeing her for the first time dressed as a woman, asks, ‘Are you saying that you’re going to start dressing up like a lady all the time?’ to which Maura laughs and replies, ‘No, honey. All my life…my whole life, I’ve been dressing up like a man. This is me.'” Read Rabbi Lisa’s full sermon
Rabbi Heather Miller is mentioned in the article on The Times of Israel, about the hit Amazon show ‘Transparent’ and its effect on reshaping views of transgender Jews: “Rabbi Heather Miller of Beth Chayim Chadashim, an LGBT Reform synagogue in West Los Angeles, wrote to Prager that ‘the type of shaming and verbal violence you inflict through the power of your pen and spoken word kills.’ Others pointed out in letters published in the Jewish Journal that the Mishnah and Gemara acknowledge six different genders that include male, female and various combinations of the two, and that the Torah is hardly as narrow-minded as he portrays it to be.” Read the full article: How ‘Transparent’ is reshaping views of transgender Jews
In ‘Wholeness of a Broken Heart,’ transgender Rabbi Elliot Kukla says “true repair begins when we acknowledge the impact of broken relationships on this planet.” With this acknowledgement we can make whole again ourselves and the world around us. Read more in our Telephone Torah Study archives
Other Transgender-Jewish Resources
Resources From Keshet:
1. The TDOR Guide with readings, text studies, personal stories, calls to action and more.
2. This reading and list of resources about the history of Transgender Day of Remembrance.
3. A printable sign, reminding everyone that Trans Jews Belong in your community.
Yiscah Smith’s journey to getting right with herself and God inspired magazine PrimeMind to feature an extensive article on transgender and Judaism. Rabbi Lisa Edwards is also quoted in the article, which also mentions rebbetzin Tracy. Read here
Two resources shared by Yiscah Smith during her talk at BCC in January 2016:
1. From Rav Kook: “There could be a free person whose spirit is the spirit of a slave. And there could be a slave with a spirit full of freedom. Whoever is faithful to one’s self – that is a free person. And whoever fills one’s life with only what is good and beautiful in the eyes of others- that is a slave.”
2. A palliative nurse has recorded the most common regrets of the dying. This is number one: I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. Read more about Yiscah’s talk here
Prominent Transgender Jewish Personalities
Rabbi Becky Silverstein
Israela Stephanie Lev
S. Bear Bergman